{"id":1326,"date":"2020-11-10T19:25:24","date_gmt":"2020-11-10T19:25:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/markxcoaching.nl\/relationship-coach\/"},"modified":"2020-11-10T19:25:24","modified_gmt":"2020-11-10T19:25:24","slug":"relationship-coach","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/markxcoaching.nl\/en\/relationship-coach\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship coach"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Every relationship has its challenges. From time to time, couples will face obstacles: from small trivialities to fundamental problems, it is perfectly natural, and does not need to be cause for panic. A relationship is more than romantic love, more than excitement; it takes work. Just like a house, a relationship needs a solid foundation to begin from, and as time goes on, it requires maintenance. It doesn\u2019t fall magically into place, nor will it stay perfect without effort from both parties. Even though you both love each other, some problems can be difficult to talk about. A third party, such as a relationship coach, can facilitate the conversation and help to carefully get to the root of the issue. It is important to remember that no-one wants to hurt anyone, and that is not the intention of this type of work – quite the opposite, in fact. We have expectations of our partners, and sometimes not all of them are met. Sometimes this requires us to reflect on ourselves: am I being unreasonable? Could I be more accepting? Or sometimes on the other person: do I feel listened to and heard? Do I feel valued and appreciated? Other times, we must reflect on the relationship itself: are their desires and needs truly compatible with mine? Have we mutually developed unhealthy, harmful habits? These questions are not easy for us to ask, let alone answer. I can help you navigate them, provide some ease and shed clarity on the situation. There often comes a point when a new relationship is transitioning out of the honeymoon phase and becoming more serious, when important matters regarding the future must be faced and no longer avoided. What should the future look like? Do you believe in marriage? Do you want to have children? What are your moral values and ethical principles? Naturally, it can be hard to raise these big questions with someone you love, because these topics are often dealbreakers. But it is important that they are not ignored for the sake of short-term superficial comfort. Otherwise, we end up feeling more hurt and betrayed later on as these truths inevitably come to present themselves. Furthermore, the long-term consequences on both individuals can have serious ramifications when it comes to future relationships. But of course, not all troubles that couples face are of this nature. It can also be difficulties solving conflicts, dishonesty, breakdowns in communication, or something missing when it comes to intimacy.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Do not forget also that, just as there is no shame in an individual seeking help, nor is there any shame in a couple doing so, either. It does not mean that your relationship is weak, or that you are not supposed to be together. It is proof of your collective strength: not only that of your commitment but also of your love itself that you have decided to seek help. I can help you refocus your attention away from minor irritations and instead direct your energy towards the bigger picture: you love each other, and you want to make it work. I want the same thing for you. Coaching can bring problems that seem overwhelming and impossible to tackle into an entirely new light. The perspective of a third, totally unbiased person can be invaluable. It often turns out that things you never even considered are in fact playing a huge role in the conflict. A person\u2019s past, for example, has significant influence over their present. This should be considered by the individual themselves so as not to impair their judgement, but also handled sensitively by their partner. Another vital aspect is your own individual wellbeing: if you are comfortable in your own skin, you do not need to look for external validation. Relationship issues can be discussed far more effectively from a place of self-acceptance than from a place of insecurity, fear and jealousy. These negative forces often cause something small to evolve into a seemingly insurmountable hurdle. It takes courage to acknowledge flaws and make changes, while moving forwards with the acceptance that some things cannot be changed.<\/p>\n

Perhaps the most important thing is to understand that the way we think about ourselves and our partner needs to be sought less from other people and more from within ourselves; our self-image should not be informed by outsiders who do not know us or have our best interests at heart. Our confidence, in order to be strong enough to withstand anything; and our self-love, in order for us to love our partner wholeheartedly to the highest of our potential; must both come from within ourselves.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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\n\t\t\t\t\t\tWe live in times where the tax on our mental wellbeing is tremendous and sometimes may require professional support. Increasingly, there will be days to draw upon the knowledge and skill of others to better ourselves. From experience and testimonials, I am thrilled to recommend Simon Markx Coaching experience. I am continuously impressed by Simon Marks\u2019 supreme ability to connect with people of all walks of life and his capability to get mobilize resources based on his wide network. His elevated interpersonal skills make him uniquely qualified to counsel clients to build decision-making skills and make life-altering positive choices. Simon has an inherent capacity to listen for what is needed, draw out the concerns with passions and co-create ideas towards pragmatic resolutions. He is authentically selfless in his approach to life, to coaching and he has provided priceless value to my personal life transitions through our regular interactions in our friendship.\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\tDR. GEORGIO MOSIS<\/span>41 jaar| Global Business Development Philips, Entrepreneur.<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
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\n\t\t\t\t\t\tSimon has helped me look into myself and reflect on things that I had buried deeply and ignored; he helps me face my troubles, but never forces me if I am not ready. He expects and returns a level of openness and honesty that is so rare and that I have always wanted. When I am talking with him, I feel truly accepted and listened to. I feel that he is totally focused on me and happy to spend the time. Because of Simon, I have begun to feel good about myself again, and believe in myself again, after a very long time. I see how much he accepts himself and he inspires me to reach his level; he inspires me to be a better person, not just for others but for myself too. I am continually grateful that he is in my life.\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\tNIAMH LISSIE<\/span>22 years Fine arts student at New York University (NYU)<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
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\n\t\t\t\t\t\tI had a true ally on my side when I moved to Amsterdam from Florida. Simon Markx helped me tremendously, from selecting a neighborhood to live in, to informing me of Dutch culture\/ traditions, and even finding vegan food stores. I can honestly say, Simon is an excellent expat coach. I\u2019d recommend his service and skills to everyone. I believe, Simon has a natural gift of helping others. He is incredibly kind and helpful.\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\tSIEARA AMIRA<\/span>28 years, Teacher from U.S.A<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
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\n\t\t\t\t\t\tWhen I came to Simon I was trying to find the right career path for myself. Starting the job application process, I had trouble dealing with rejection. Within a few coaching sessions Simon gave me confidence and took away my fear of rejection. He helped me to go after my dream jobs without being afraid of a \u201cno\u201d and never miss out on an opportunity again.\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\tPAMELA ERNST<\/span>25 years, Master Study student<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
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\n\t\t\t\t\t\tI had struggled for a while to find a new direction in my life and career. Simon helped me to set new goals, evaluate and re-structure the various options I had. Simon is extremely professional, great at active listening, and guiding you to find the solutions for yourself. With Simon, I was able to be myself with all my vulnerabilities and figure out my future in a humorous and positive environment. Simon is a great coach choice for English speakers. I would highly recommend him as a career and lifestyle coach.\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\tELSA HAVAS<\/span>27 years | Sports Scientist from Finland<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
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\n\t\t\t\t\t\tSimon is a warm and genuine person who connects with you instantly. He wants to know who you are and what your goals and dreams are. He enriches himself through service to others. He takes on your challenges and your dreams as if they were his own. In my experience this is a rare gift.\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\tMICHAEL FIDUK<\/span>38 jaar | Business Development, Mobility<\/span><\/cite>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
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Relationship coach DIFFICULT MOMENTS Every relationship has its challenges. From time to time, couples will face obstacles: from small trivialities to fundamental problems, it is perfectly natural, and does not need to be cause for panic. A relationship is more than romantic love, more than excitement; it takes work. Just like a house, a relationship […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-1326","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"yoast_head":"\nRelationship coach offers new perspective | Markx coaching<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Er zijn moeilijke momenten in relaties waar ieder koppel tegen aan loopt. Relatie coach biedt nieuw perspectief. 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